Monday 13 January 2014

Silver linings

The walls that protected me,
And the hands that used to guide,
The pillars of support I could fall on,
Are no longer by my side.

I wiped my tears as I hugged them,
and then I cried some more,
A last glimpse over my shoulder,
And I walked out the door.

I did not know what lay in front of me,
What would come my way.
It was dark and scary,
Today, the clouds were grey.

And then the realization struck me,
To preach what I had been taught.
That losers never won,
and winners always fought.

I knocked on several doors,
To find the right key.
Tests and trials given,
To see what is suitable for me.

Step by step I reached here,
A longer way to go,
Neither mike nor stage knew me,
The faces, I didn't know.

Some glistening eyes, some friendly smiles,
Some welcoming voices too,
People who would walk with me
When everything was new.

This is a time of transformations
A time of new beginnings,
It might not be so bad after all,
Grey clouds, too, have silver linings.

Sunday 12 January 2014

Women as agents of change

The status of women in India has been subject to many great changes over the past few years, actually, over the past few millennia. From equal status with men in ancient times through the low points of the medieval period, to the promotion of equal rights by many reformers, the history of women in India has been eventful.
In the Rigvedic period, the women took equal part in sacrificial rites. Women frequently associated themselves with Vidhatha.
Yes it’s true that Medieval India was not women's age. It is supposed to be the 'dark age' for them. Medieval India saw many foreign conquests, which resulted in the decline in women's status. Cheap and forced labour of the enslaved population or of the Sudras became available to the Aryans and women ceased to be productive members of society.
The status of women in modern India is a sort of a paradox. If on one hand she is at the peak of ladder of success, on the other hand she is mutely suffering the family violence.
As compared with past, women in modern times have achieved a lot. Women have left the secured domain of their home and are now in the battlefield of life, fully armored with their talent. They are proving themselves.
The plight of women in medieval India and at the starting of modern India can be summed up in the words of great poet Rabindranath Tagore:
"O Lord! Why have you not given woman the right to conquer her destiny?
Why does she have to wait head bowed,
By the roadside, Waiting with tired patience,
Hoping for a miracle in the morrow? O Lord!”
We must not forget that Indian women are not lagging behind men but have reached and even proved themselves better suited in each and every height and pinnacle that men have.
When we hear “Indian women who have brought a change in our country”, the names that may pop into most of our heads are Jhansi ki Rani, Indira Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Kiran Bedi, Kalpana Chawla, Saina Nehwal, Medha Patkar, Aishwariya Rai Bachchan, Lata Mangehkar, Arundhati Roy or Prathiba Patil.
We shouldn’t ignore Bachendri Pal- the first Indian women to climb the Mt.Everest, or Justice M.Fatima Beevi- the first woman judge of the supreme court of India or perhaps Harita Kaur Deol- first Indian woman pilot in the Indian Air Force on a solo fight. Or perhaps even Savitribai Phule- the first female teacher of the first women’s school in India. Names like Kamaljit Sandhu- first Indian woman to win a gold in the Asian Games or Punita Arora- the first woman in the Indian Army to don the highest rank of Lieutenant General, do not really strike us at all.
Whether it is in the field of sports or in the political front, in literature or in the sphere of art and entertainment, Indian women have mastered anything and everything which a woman can dream of. They participate in all activities such as education, media, art and culture, service sectors, science and technology, etc.
It is not merely about names by which I shall support my argument. Statistics of 2009-2010 have shown that a total of 276,806 women were enrolled in engineering and technology courses at the start of the academic session. In urban India, girls are nearly at par with the boys in terms of education. This shows that women have broken yet another glass ceiling- one of the most resilient ones in Indian academics.
Today’s modern women fill many positions starting from nurses to CEO’s, scientists to members of NGOs. And as women keep climbing the ladder to success, they encourage the youth like us. Girls from all around the world aspire to become a Lata Mangeshkar, or a P. T. Usha. Anita Desai, Shobha De and Prathiba Patil are idols for many girls.
Along with being career oriented, women have shouldered their household responsibilities very well. The pressure of being expected to fill roles like sister, mother, daughter, friend, wife etc. can result in anxiety, depression and loss of self worth. However they have not let anything pull them back.
The desire of Indian women can be best summed up in the following lines of 'Song of an African Women':

I have only one request.
I do not ask for money
Although I have need of it,
I do not ask for meat . . .
I have only one request,

And all I ask is
That you remove
The road block
From my path.

I would like to end by quoting US president Barack Obama “The best judge of whether or not a country is going to develop is how it treats its women. If it's educating its girls, if women have equal rights, that country is going to move forward. But if women are oppressed and abused and illiterate, then they're going to fall behind.” Unquote.
Thus looking at the progress of women, it can be rightly said, hats off to the ladies…